If you don’t make out with a girl when you first meet her, you failed.
If you don’t make out with her by the first date, you are a complete sucker. Be a man, get her in a bar, make her laugh over a couple drinks, and step up.
Find the cutest girl in the room and ask if you can share her table.
Your best bet is to visit coffee shops so crowded that all tables are taken.
Being too nice and polite is a sure way to get ignored and rejected by women, because although they want you to be a good guy, they don’t want to have to tell you how to behave. Of course this doesn’t mean that a guy should be rude or forceful.